Hi Dragonmaster

Before you buy any type of "kit" please contact your local bee club and find a good mentor!!! I can't tell you how different things look inside a hive in reality vs. what you have read in any book. A mentor who has years of hands on experience with the bees will be the most valuable thing you can do! The learning curve is huge with bees and the best way to develop an "eye" for the best practices is to practice with someone who knows what they are doing. No amount of reading or research can replace personal experience!
That said, I agree with Iddee 100%, all of the kits contain stuff that will just not be needed, or should be replaced with different equipment. You have to remember that the people selling them are doing business to make a profit, not to help you do what is best for your bee yard. Price the items that you really do need individually and add the items you need as you need them.... it worked out well for us that way. Sometimes items you may need later on can be found for less money from other beekeepers in your area (another reason to be connected with a club).
You must have AWESOME parents to help you finance such an endeavor! Congratulations on having that kind of support!
Lastly, be careful who you take advice from! There will be lots and lots of people offering their opinions to you who have never done anything more with bees than read a few books and snippets from various websites..... to take information from such people as though it were absolute truth is sort of like performing your own heart surgery.
